What to say in online dating chat

Match seemed to me to be a site for people seriously looking for a soul mate.

Most appear willing to put the time in setting-up quality profile and frequently check mail and available online.

If you want to have more success with online dating put less emphasis on people’s looks, spend more time reading peoples profiles and more time on your initial emails to these potential matches.

It should go without saying put some character into your own profile (a little humor goes a long way) and of course put up the best photo you can of yourself.

Try and look passed the photo and try to read into what people say about themselves with an open mind 'don't be so critical'. Chatting or engaging with people in far away (often exotic) places is only asking for trouble.

If they are locals it is easy to establish their credentials this will minimize the risk of being scammed because believe me they are out there.

With regards to oasis active this tradeoff comes in the form of banner ads, fewer features and potentially a lower standard membership base.

So don’t be disappointed if all the cute guys or girls are not knocking on your door.

You must be proactive, friendly and approachable but I found the atmosphere positive and upbeat.

Now that’s not to say oasis active membership is of a lower standard than match or other sites but with any free service you are going to have to contend with a higher level of scammers.

Generally people not paying for a service are not going to take it as serious.