So you need some tips on how to spot what they call a poser online. My advice is politely bid them farewell and move on to greener pastures.It is a strange phenomenon but you meet someone in chat and they start to open up to you. Do they try not to tell you very much about their past? If she says no, then she is definitely not interested.If her parents approve of your behavior, then maybe they’ll allow her to go out with you if you politely ask them for permission. Now there is nothing wrong with cybersex in its own right, but when you are online to find a relationship, a romance and a soul mate, going straight to sex just does not work.Most people have rich histories to share from and many funny stories to tell.Example Truedat (another guy who was living in Manila) had several Philippine girls swearing their undying love and loyalty to him. Truedat and I were in constant contact the whole time and this girl is literally sending him messages about how much she loves him WHILE on a date with me. She’s telling me she loves me by the end of the night.One was online, one was a gorgeous model I met while out. I leave this girl in my apartment to go out saying “I’ll be back soon”, I wind up picking up another girl and taking her to a hotel.
A common statement by Filipino men said to Filipinas: Gusto kitang ligawan. If she says anything that is not a no, you have the go-ahead to try your hand at winning her affection. You have to visit her at home in the evening and talk to her in the sala (living room) with her parents watching nearby. Don’t dare draw close to her or they will think you are manyakis (a sex maniac).But there has to be a chaperone — maybe the mother or her yaya (the paid help who raised her) or the most trusted maid of the household who will carry the umbrella to shield her ward from the sun.(You can only go out in broad daylight.)You can walk in the park or some other public place.In online dating, we meet a lot of people through the tools of instant messaging, email, and chat rooms. If a guy cannot get a conversation with a girl, he might pose as a girl just for the conversation. If you find a fake, you can decide what to do about it. Or you can try to help them come clean with you so you can build a real relationship with them.But putting up a fake profile to others in chat settings is epidemic online. They use the fake ID to replace what a good personality and ability to be real would get them otherwise. Or you can even go as far as reporting them so they will be punished by the service.