Most women will message me within 24 hours of the transition request.If you haven’t heard from her within this timeframe a couple of things might have happened: Once she picks up the conversation on Whatsapp, save her name and number in your address book, and continue vibing.Tinder, Happn and these other fancy apps hadn’t been invented. After completing my profile I sat back and waited for the messages to come pouring in. Just like in real life it was up to me as the man to make the approach. I don’t care what app or dating site you are on, as a man you need to be initiating conversations with tens of girls before you get a response. Below I’m going to outline a strategy you can use to ensure you are not one of those men, and increase the number of women you get from online dating to a first date. It is your role as a man to ask her out and either be rejected or win the prize. That shit is not only needy but it’s also incredibly creepy.Right now I would guess my response rate to an initial message is about 5%. Because if you get a response to your opening message then your odds of getting a first date are excellent, especially if you do it right. I’m not going to teach you what to send in an opening message, or how to engage in the conversation. And if you follow the process your chances of being rejected will dramatically decrease (you will still be rejected though…many times…deal with it). Chatting online is not about: The purpose of chatting online is to make her feel attracted and safe enough to meet you in person.If you or she is naturally a busy person, you can extend that timeline. If she takes 20 minutes to respond, mirror that timing. It’s highly unlikely that she will respond with “I’m busy everyday next week” because that sounds like bullshit.
I generally only do that on a second date so I don’t mind if we aren’t that close. Have a bar that you go to regularly near where you live and get to know the bar staff.The TRM should be comprised of 5 parts: Both examples are fun, outcome independent and non-needy. If she doesn’t message, you don’t care because you have other women in your life. You are supplicating and indicating nervousness by asking if she is OK with something you want to do. It comes across as though she is the only women who has ever chatted with you and you are pleading with her to keep talking to you.You haven’t asked her to message you or if she wants to Whatsapp. You’ve also forgotten your name, and haven’t closed the previous conversation. 20% (I totally made up that stat because I never send a message like this! IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE do not abuse her trust in giving you her number by acting like a man-child.Clearly if she takes 22 hours to respond this might be unrealistic, but still aim for it.Also note that the type of website/app you are using to meet women may affect the amount of work you have to do. Each message might be a single sentence or even just an emoji. Some techniques to help you do this include: You’ve got the mindset down, and you’ve got a match on Tinder or Happn or any other dating site and the conversation is flowing.