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The problem, however, is when the two people getting married don't talk about their expectations. And I don't want to be the only one to take out the garbage.One partner goes in thinking, say, "This is going to be awesome: once we're married, the sex is going to get way kinkier because the trust is going to be so much stronger between us! And I want you to plan at least one special night for us a week. " It's hard to put your finger on what marriage means to you.One thing that is freaking me out at the moment is when I hear of friend and friends of friends, who marry after being together for 7-8 years, but end up divorced after the first year or so. But when it comes to this trend, I've got a theory…

These could be assumptions about gender roles ("Now she'll cook, and I'll work overtime!

") or home/family planning ("Now we'll get a little house and he'll get me pregnant! All too often, these aren't even expectations we're aware of …

wildly progressive het couples fall into the long-established husband/wife roles without even realizing what they're doing.

Paramedics had been doing CPR for over an hour, or the patient had been found down with no indication of how long they’d been without a pulse, or they’d have an injury that seemed far too traumatic to survive.

So we’d roll up our sleeves and try a Hail Mary, which sometimes involved cracking the patient’s chest open and the trauma surgeon massaging the patient’s heart back to life.