Most guys leave this to chance; they rely on luck or hope.
The opener is quite simply the first words that come out of your mouth.
If you say, “You’re hot and I want you,” that’s very direct and puts a lot of pressure on her; if you say, “When does it get busy here? Indirect Openers Here are some indirect openers and how they might be used. The key is making certain that the first line is deadpan and the second is delivered with a smile. When they realize that they’ve fallen into your line, they’ll laugh and become interested in you.
Different people feel comfortable saying different kinds of things. There’s a guy over there who is so perfect for you!
He’s done so much for me over the years, so I said I’d take care of it. I’ve been giving it some thought, but I’m pretty stuck. ” This is a great one for daytime, in malls and stores, but it can also be used at night.
You have to believe in what you say and put yourself on the line. If there’s even a hint of weakness and the girl picks up on it, the opener will fall flat.
When you have confidence from your success with other openers, or if you’re confident because you can tell the girl is attracted to you, bring out the direct opener and it’ll be fantastic.
They will likely be in conversation already, or at least thinking about something with a conversation going on inside their head. Think about how you do this in your own life; be aware of your interaction next time you join a group.
When you start talking, you’re breaking that state, and their response will be, “What? I only learned this properly when I started as a trainer and watched students open without first saying, “Hey.” The girls would say, “What?