Sure there are a few people who actually leave their wives when they have met their “soul mate”. Although he gets to the point where he is saying he loves the side chick, he is usually more in love with his kids.
In a loveless marriage with small children, the kids become more of a silver lining and the focus of all the reasons to deal with the unhappiness of no sex and conversation that only revolves around household duties (“did you pay the light bill?
This a cowardly way to handle the situation and nothing short of him growing a set of balls and leaving is going to change that fact.
But does the same ring true when it comes to picking who you sleep with?
He was 10 years older, and I just liked knowing that what we were doing was so wrong and that it was never going to be more than what it was: an affair that I will always remember.
I met a guy at a bar one night, and we ended up sleeping together.
The other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to.
This makes her feel as if the only thing keeping them apart is the ring on his finger.
The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her.
After they meet and exchange conversation, he realizes what he has been missing at home and decides to pursue his happiness with her on the side.
But for others, knowing the person you're hitting on is married is just part of the thrill.
I loved the thrill of sleeping with a guy I knew was married.